hey hey hey!! this is from an e-mail that i just recieved.. it makes me say WTH??!!
read it and you'll can understand it.
It's long but worth reading
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I cried for my brother 6 timesI was born in a secluded village of a mountain.Days by days my parents plowed the yellow dry soilwith their backs facing the sky.I have a younger brother, 3 years younger than me.Once, to buy a handkerchief which all girls around meseemed to have, I stole 50 cents from my father's drawer.Father known about it right away.
He made my younger brother and me kneeled against thewall, with a bamboo stick in his hand."Who stole the money?" he asked.I was stunned, too afraid to talk. Father didn't hear any of us admit, so he said, "Fine, if nobody wants toadmit, you two should be beaten!"He lifted up the bamboo stick.Suddenly, my younger brother gripped father's hand andsaid," Dad, I was the one who did it!"The long stick smacked on my brother's back repeatedly.Father was so angry that he kept on whipped my brother until he lost his breath.
After that, he sat down on our stone bed and scoldedmy brother, "You have learnt to steal from your ownhouse now, what other embarrassing things youwill do in the future?? You should be beaten to death!You shameless thief!"
That night, mother and I hugged my brother. His bodyfull of injuries, but he didn't shed a single tear.In the middle of the night, all of sudden I cried outloudly.My brother covered my mouth with his little hand andsaid, " Sis, now don't cry anymore. Everything hashappened."I still hate myself for didn't have enough courage toadmit what I had done.Years gone by, but the incident still looked like itjust happen! ed yesterday.
I will never forget my brother's expression when heprotected me.That year, my brother was 8 years old; I was 11 years old.When my brother was in his last year of his lowersecondary school, he was accepted in an uppersecondary school in the central.
At the same time, I was accepted into a province's university.That night, father squatted in the yard, smoking,packet by packet.I could hear him said, "Both our children have goodResults, very good results."Mother wiped off her tears and sighed," What is theuse? How can we possibly finance both of them?"
At that time, my brother walked out, he stood in frontof father and said,"Dad, I don't want to continue mystudy anymore, I have read enough books."Father swung his hand and slapped brother on his face."Why do you have a spirit so damn weak? Even if it means I have to beg for money on the streets, I willsend you two to school until you both finish your study!"
And then, he started to knock on every house in the village to borrow money.I stuck out my hand as soft as I can to my brother'sswollen face, and said, "A boy has to continue hisstudy; If not, he will not be able to leave this depths of poverty."Me, on the other hand, had decided not to further mystudy to university.Who knows on the next day, before dawn, my brother left the house with a few pieces of worn-out clothesand a few dry beans. He sneaked to the side of my bedand left a note on my pillow;"Sis, get into an university is not easy. I will go find a job and send money to you."I held the note while sitting on my bed, and crieduntil I lost my voice.That year, my brother was 17 years old; I was 20 yearsold.
With the money father borrowed from the wholevillage, and money my brother earned from carryingcement on his back at cons! truction site,finally, Imanaged to get to the third year of my study in theuniversity.One day, I was studying in my room, when my roommatecame in and told me,"There's a villager wait for yououtside!"Why is there a villager looking for me? I walked out,and saw my brother from afar, His whole body is dirty,covered by dust, cement and sands. I asked him, "Whydon't you tell my roommate that you are my brother?"He replied with a smile," Look at my appearance.
What will they think if they know that I am your brother?Don't they laugh at you?"I felt so touched, and tears filled my eyes. I sweptaway dusts from my brother's body. And said with alump in my throat, " I don't care of what people say!You are my brother no matter what your appearance is?">From his pocket, he took out a butterfly hair clip. Hewore it on me, and said, "I saw all the girls in townare wearing it. So, I think you should also have one."I could not hold back myself anymore.
I pulled mybrother into my arms and cried and cried.That year, my brother was 20 years old; I was 23 years old.The first time I brought my boyfriend home, the brokenwindow had been repaired.And it looked so clean insidethe house.After, my boyfriend went home, I danced like a smallgirl in front of my mother, "Mom, you don't have tospend so many time cleaning the house!" But she saidwith a smile," It was your brother who went home earlyto clean the house. Didn't you see the wound on hishand? He was injured while replacing the window."I went into my brother's small bedroom. Looking at histhin face, I felt like there are hundreds of needlepricked in my heart.I put some ointment on his wound and bandaged it,"Does it hurt? " I asked him."No, it doesn't hurt.
You know, when I was working inthe construction site, stones falling on my feet allthe time. Even that could not stop me from working and?"In the middle of the sentence, he stopped. I turned myback on him and tears rolling down my face.That year, my brother was 23 years old; I was 26 years old.After I got married, I lived in the city. Lots of timemy husband invited my parents to come and live withus, but they didn't want.They said, once they left the village,they didn't knowwhat to do.My brother also didn't agree, he said, "Sis, you justtaking care of your parents-in-law. I will take careof mom and dad here."My husband became the director of his factory.
We wanted my brother to get the job as the manager in the department of maintenance. But my brother rejected theoffer. He insisted on starting to work as a reparation worker.One day, my brother was on the top of a ladder repairing a cable, when he got electrocuted, and wassent to the hospital.My husband and I visited him. Looked at the white gypsum on his leg, I grumbled,"Why did you reject tobe a manager? Manager will not do something dangerouslike this. Look at you now, such a serious injury. Why you didn't want to listen to us?"With a serious expression on his face, he defended onhis decision, "Think of brother-in-law?he just becamethe director, and I almost uneducated.
If I became the manager, what kind of rumors will fly around?"My husband's eyes filled up with tears, and then Isaid, "But you lack in education also because of me!""Why talking about the past?" My brother held my hand.That year, he was 26 years old and I was 29 years old.My brother was 30 years old when he married a farmergirl from the village.
In his wedding reception, the master of ceremoniesasked him, "Who is the one you respect and love themost?"Without thinking, he answered," My sister." Hecontinued by telling a story I could not evenremember."When I was in primary school, the school was indifferent village.Everyday, my sister and I walked for2 hours to go school and go home. One day, I lost oneof my pair of gloves. My sister gave me one of hers.She only wore one glove and walked for so far. When wegot home, her hand was so trembled because of theweather that was so cold that she could not evenhold her chopsticks. From that day on, I swore that aslong as I live, I would take care of my sister and begood to her.
"Applause filled up the room. All guests turned theirattentions to me.Words were so hard to come out from my mouth, "In mywhole life, the one I would like to thank the most is my brother,"
And in this happy occasion,in front of the crowd, tears rolling down my face again.
Love and care for the one you love every single daysof your life. You may think what you did is just a smalldeed, but to that someone, it may mean a lot.Have a nice day everyone! May this story inspire you in anyway!
see what i mean?? she doesn't even try to help him in anyway! at least help him tru out his life
10 April 2009 at 20:33
I love him..Can he marry me??haha..